Post by GateKeeper on Nov 5, 2012 1:16:03 GMT
Were supposed to be the strong ones in a marriage or partnership .
We take everything in like a sponge making sure everyones ok never letting go of our emotions never saying how we truly feel because were worried that were only going to hurt those who are hurting around us so we keep it in now the time goes on and on my poison was alcahole I used it to forget but
realy I done more hurt than anything else because you become spitefull we don’t have anyone we can run to or get comfort from because were the man of the house were not supposed to have them sort of feelings we lost a child and I never let things out ive always taken and tried to be there for my family but the alcahole was just getting to much if your at that stage where things are getting to much please stop to think what your doing your not blocking things your only making things worse as the pain just gets worse and worse I wish all them years ago I just sat and talked I wish my pride as the man of the house just got swept away and I just let it all out the pain is so much it takes over your life don’t go down that road you have a partner they love you no matter what they will sit with you and listen if you need to cry cry its not that your less of a man it just means you trust and love your partner I never did because of pride my hurt and pain has hurt the one I love the most with there own pain when it could have been dealt with different pride must go out of the window somethings must be sorted together its what a partnership is , so if your suffering its never to late to try to fix things try to sit and just let things go don’t let it destroy you your no less of a man for it if anything your more of a man to do this being strong doesent mean you have to bare all that pain being strong its learning how to deal with it please listen to what ive said and tell your partners they will love you more for it after all there your best friend
Peace & Love
( GateKeeper )
We take everything in like a sponge making sure everyones ok never letting go of our emotions never saying how we truly feel because were worried that were only going to hurt those who are hurting around us so we keep it in now the time goes on and on my poison was alcahole I used it to forget but
realy I done more hurt than anything else because you become spitefull we don’t have anyone we can run to or get comfort from because were the man of the house were not supposed to have them sort of feelings we lost a child and I never let things out ive always taken and tried to be there for my family but the alcahole was just getting to much if your at that stage where things are getting to much please stop to think what your doing your not blocking things your only making things worse as the pain just gets worse and worse I wish all them years ago I just sat and talked I wish my pride as the man of the house just got swept away and I just let it all out the pain is so much it takes over your life don’t go down that road you have a partner they love you no matter what they will sit with you and listen if you need to cry cry its not that your less of a man it just means you trust and love your partner I never did because of pride my hurt and pain has hurt the one I love the most with there own pain when it could have been dealt with different pride must go out of the window somethings must be sorted together its what a partnership is , so if your suffering its never to late to try to fix things try to sit and just let things go don’t let it destroy you your no less of a man for it if anything your more of a man to do this being strong doesent mean you have to bare all that pain being strong its learning how to deal with it please listen to what ive said and tell your partners they will love you more for it after all there your best friend
Peace & Love
( GateKeeper )
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