Post by GateKeeper on Oct 21, 2012 18:23:07 GMT
Today I would like to share my thoughts with you on love & relationships .
We go through life going through many different relationships / marriages meeting many different partners we share our life's with.
some are for only a short time others for a long time and if your lucky enough for life .
we find out much about ourselves because we have to learn to share things take others feelings in to consideration we learn to work as a team .
love comes and you feel like there the only thing in the world that matters to you .
you don’t mind making a fool of yourself ego goes out the window and the real you comes out to shine you don’t have to impress to make things work or do you have to spend all your money on them there with you because they think highly enough of you to want to spend the rest of there life with you .
relationships are never easy I know this first hand I couldn't be in small little relationships that only last a month or a week as yes they can be fun yes you get to share and impress there only good if your not ready to settle but we cant judge any relationship until we start them and see what happens .
the relationships that last a year or so are good testers of what its like to be in a steady relationship but also to get you to learn about how other people think and to handle breaking up its never easy especially if you didn’t want to split up but what don’t break you makes you .
you get stronger and tend to not to fall for others to quick you get to know them first but of course you cant tell your heart if its pounding not to fall for the person .
then you have the long term relationships these are what I'm used to in there relationships this is where we grow but we also get lost because like many things there's always distractions like meeting others or children or work etc .
try to think of your partners needs and wants never forget that no matter whats happened or happening is also happening to them after a long time you take them for granted stop just think about what your doing because you might think that your Indestructible but really your not you must work at any relationship if you find that that spark has gone and things are not right you must come to decisions weather to walk or to build on things you change your partner changes sometimes you need to relight that fire you had in the beginning it could be the making of the rest of your life so please don’t be to quick to walk learn by any mistakes and move forward .
life time partners are the ones when we have reached that point in life where nothing else matters and we think that’s it no more partners we only want them we think of growing old with them we think of more important things in life than silly arguments life becomes so much easyer they know you in and out you know them like a book that you have read so many times over Lots just bliss .
if you find a lifetime partner your twin please look after them don’t let anything get between you both that love is pure its also raw because its all new no money in the world can by the love you feel when your with your lifes partner .
just remember that it takes 2 to make any relationship work from a blokes point of view we do take things for granted until its to late we don’t stop to think .
if you find yourself in a long relationship count it as a blessing and not a curse there's someone that loves you theres someone that will lay there life on the line for you love is good but can also feel very bad so just take my thoughts on board and follow your guts on things .
please don’t carry the past with you from old mistakes or your partners as it only causes pain and hurt let things go .
show them there the best thing in the world but as im learning recently that even when things have turned sour and you try to show them you really do care that they re not used to you being so close or showing them just how much they really mean to you that they think your trying to hard ,.
Every partner deserves to be loved they deserve to be told that you appreciate them they deserve your respect show them you care take time out from things to spend quality time with them there worth it .
If the long term relationships end we feel broken we feel like nothing else in the world matters any more depression can set in all because you drew apart from each other .
Please if your reading this and you can associate with what im saying go spend some quality time with the one you love tell them how special they are to you and repair any damage that’s been done before things end up like they have for me .
I live in hope I live and prey that I can find that love from my love again as Im stupid and I have definitely learned my lesson in life .
Hope this helps you and you find your self in joy and happiness .
Peace & Love
GateKeeper
We go through life going through many different relationships / marriages meeting many different partners we share our life's with.
some are for only a short time others for a long time and if your lucky enough for life .
we find out much about ourselves because we have to learn to share things take others feelings in to consideration we learn to work as a team .
love comes and you feel like there the only thing in the world that matters to you .
you don’t mind making a fool of yourself ego goes out the window and the real you comes out to shine you don’t have to impress to make things work or do you have to spend all your money on them there with you because they think highly enough of you to want to spend the rest of there life with you .
relationships are never easy I know this first hand I couldn't be in small little relationships that only last a month or a week as yes they can be fun yes you get to share and impress there only good if your not ready to settle but we cant judge any relationship until we start them and see what happens .
the relationships that last a year or so are good testers of what its like to be in a steady relationship but also to get you to learn about how other people think and to handle breaking up its never easy especially if you didn’t want to split up but what don’t break you makes you .
you get stronger and tend to not to fall for others to quick you get to know them first but of course you cant tell your heart if its pounding not to fall for the person .
then you have the long term relationships these are what I'm used to in there relationships this is where we grow but we also get lost because like many things there's always distractions like meeting others or children or work etc .
try to think of your partners needs and wants never forget that no matter whats happened or happening is also happening to them after a long time you take them for granted stop just think about what your doing because you might think that your Indestructible but really your not you must work at any relationship if you find that that spark has gone and things are not right you must come to decisions weather to walk or to build on things you change your partner changes sometimes you need to relight that fire you had in the beginning it could be the making of the rest of your life so please don’t be to quick to walk learn by any mistakes and move forward .
life time partners are the ones when we have reached that point in life where nothing else matters and we think that’s it no more partners we only want them we think of growing old with them we think of more important things in life than silly arguments life becomes so much easyer they know you in and out you know them like a book that you have read so many times over Lots just bliss .
if you find a lifetime partner your twin please look after them don’t let anything get between you both that love is pure its also raw because its all new no money in the world can by the love you feel when your with your lifes partner .
just remember that it takes 2 to make any relationship work from a blokes point of view we do take things for granted until its to late we don’t stop to think .
if you find yourself in a long relationship count it as a blessing and not a curse there's someone that loves you theres someone that will lay there life on the line for you love is good but can also feel very bad so just take my thoughts on board and follow your guts on things .
please don’t carry the past with you from old mistakes or your partners as it only causes pain and hurt let things go .
show them there the best thing in the world but as im learning recently that even when things have turned sour and you try to show them you really do care that they re not used to you being so close or showing them just how much they really mean to you that they think your trying to hard ,.
Every partner deserves to be loved they deserve to be told that you appreciate them they deserve your respect show them you care take time out from things to spend quality time with them there worth it .
If the long term relationships end we feel broken we feel like nothing else in the world matters any more depression can set in all because you drew apart from each other .
Please if your reading this and you can associate with what im saying go spend some quality time with the one you love tell them how special they are to you and repair any damage that’s been done before things end up like they have for me .
I live in hope I live and prey that I can find that love from my love again as Im stupid and I have definitely learned my lesson in life .
Hope this helps you and you find your self in joy and happiness .
Peace & Love
GateKeeper
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