Post by GateKeeper on Sept 20, 2012 19:29:45 GMT
I had no idea how to start this post so I'm just going to start off the cuff
Being in Love is more power full than a person can even imagine it has its good sides but it also has its ups and downs .
I have felt love most of my life as I'm sure you all have when its good there's nothing else you would rather have in the world it feels like your walking on clouds nothing can stop that feeling knowing that this person that’s next to you is everything you ever wanted and more you cannot see any faults .hours days months years go by and you never get bored of each other you get to know each other like the back of your hand things are just perfect yes you have your arguments but there healthy because it get things open and in the air and then you get through things but like me over the years my love got stronger and stronger I didn’t think it was possible for a love to still grow even after 13 years but it has you have children and you become a team working together to raise the kids as time goes by because your so busy raising the family you forget about your partners feelings and you get stuck in a routine it can make you both drift apart the love never goes it just gets put to the side because your so busy with life you can get to the stage where your strangers then things start to go bad that’s when love kills you inside as you know that you never intended to ignore or hurt the other person but without realizing it its gone on for a long time its all to easy to get caught up in liefs hustles and bustles like I did and things just go wrong the love you feel is hurt full because you never intended to hurt your partner things get thrown in your face and no matter what you try to say to defend your self you are actually in the wrong the love you feel for this person turns to pain as you never saw things happening as your so lost in doing things like me I done many things within my marriage drink was a big enemy of mine I done a lot of things in my time and most of it with my wife I hold my hands up I was not a good person but I changed I don’t want to see my wife cry but things get to that point of your partner saying enough enough the damage you have done is and cannot be reversed . the love you still feel for your partner then gets a wake up call but its to late .
What I'm trying to really tell you today is please please if your in a relationship stop and think of what your doing as things will always get to that point where there's no return by her or him gifts treat them like there the best thing on earth because lets face it actually they are .
When things go wrong they really do go wrong you feel like the world has just grabbed you and you cant get out of its clasp .
You lose your best friend your wife or partner you lose your self respect .
Like me I think how could I have been so stupid I had everything a person could have dreamed of and I threw it all away I'm not a horrible person and it hurts to think that in all the time I had been in the past to the one person in the world that loved me for being me now its all gone I have nothing ,
The love I still feel is overwhelming as I love the ground she walks on but the damage has been done .
So just take my advice im giving you and please show your partner how much they mean to you the simple things in life are the most important and its what they will remember the most tell them you love them don’t rise to the arguments and show them there special to you and that you appreciate them for what they do for you
I'm going to leave the post here as its real deep and I could just go on and on but its killing me to keep on writing
I hope those of you who reads this will take my advice don’t end up like me live your life happy and in love .
Hugs & Blesssings .
GateKeeper
Being in Love is more power full than a person can even imagine it has its good sides but it also has its ups and downs .
I have felt love most of my life as I'm sure you all have when its good there's nothing else you would rather have in the world it feels like your walking on clouds nothing can stop that feeling knowing that this person that’s next to you is everything you ever wanted and more you cannot see any faults .hours days months years go by and you never get bored of each other you get to know each other like the back of your hand things are just perfect yes you have your arguments but there healthy because it get things open and in the air and then you get through things but like me over the years my love got stronger and stronger I didn’t think it was possible for a love to still grow even after 13 years but it has you have children and you become a team working together to raise the kids as time goes by because your so busy raising the family you forget about your partners feelings and you get stuck in a routine it can make you both drift apart the love never goes it just gets put to the side because your so busy with life you can get to the stage where your strangers then things start to go bad that’s when love kills you inside as you know that you never intended to ignore or hurt the other person but without realizing it its gone on for a long time its all to easy to get caught up in liefs hustles and bustles like I did and things just go wrong the love you feel is hurt full because you never intended to hurt your partner things get thrown in your face and no matter what you try to say to defend your self you are actually in the wrong the love you feel for this person turns to pain as you never saw things happening as your so lost in doing things like me I done many things within my marriage drink was a big enemy of mine I done a lot of things in my time and most of it with my wife I hold my hands up I was not a good person but I changed I don’t want to see my wife cry but things get to that point of your partner saying enough enough the damage you have done is and cannot be reversed . the love you still feel for your partner then gets a wake up call but its to late .
What I'm trying to really tell you today is please please if your in a relationship stop and think of what your doing as things will always get to that point where there's no return by her or him gifts treat them like there the best thing on earth because lets face it actually they are .
When things go wrong they really do go wrong you feel like the world has just grabbed you and you cant get out of its clasp .
You lose your best friend your wife or partner you lose your self respect .
Like me I think how could I have been so stupid I had everything a person could have dreamed of and I threw it all away I'm not a horrible person and it hurts to think that in all the time I had been in the past to the one person in the world that loved me for being me now its all gone I have nothing ,
The love I still feel is overwhelming as I love the ground she walks on but the damage has been done .
So just take my advice im giving you and please show your partner how much they mean to you the simple things in life are the most important and its what they will remember the most tell them you love them don’t rise to the arguments and show them there special to you and that you appreciate them for what they do for you
I'm going to leave the post here as its real deep and I could just go on and on but its killing me to keep on writing
I hope those of you who reads this will take my advice don’t end up like me live your life happy and in love .
Hugs & Blesssings .
GateKeeper
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