Post by GateKeeper on Aug 24, 2012 22:49:00 GMT
We have all been teenagers having our first love and so fourth some of us got married and the love there's different .
But when you have a child the love changes .
How do i start hmmmm OK ile start like this .
OK the Minuit they come out in this world you melt on the spot .
You know that the pair of you made this all worries go out the window like will i be a good dad / will i do enough to show my love / how am i going to afford this extra mouth to feed or clothe the baby for the rest of there life .
All the worries you have are just a state of panic .
OK now your holding your baby in your arms its so helpless only you and your wife or partner will be the ones to feed and change the baby to to keep it clean and help it grow your life turns around automatically the minute there there .
you know that you would protect the baby even if it means you die in the process .
now from a blokes point of view even when the wife rants and raves is nothing when you have a child they scream they shout they crap all the time and there always hungry sometimes when there teething or ill or got colic they just scream blue murder and they stress you right out but as soon as you get that smile alls forgiven you get up all silly hours at stupid O'clock to deal with them you wouldn't even get up with u wife or partner that way .
having a child makes you but it also breaks you .
and at the end of the day as long as you get your smile or a cuddle with them it seems to make it all better.
now with me with my kids no matter how old they are i go to the extreme of when my kids have eaten and I'm having dinner if one or more are still hungry ile always give my dinner to them as i don't come into the equation if a child's still hungry they get .when they get older and they go to school you have to try to let go a little as you have never had to share your child before but the minute there supposed to leave your there at the door no thanks ever comes from the children but you do it as there your child and you love them but the minute there at school and you find that they get hurt your heart goes a panic wondering if there OK .
So you drop whatever your doing to get to them at any cost .
School plays when they come you go just to see your child OK to See the play but your looking for your child only lol .
You sit there so proud that there doing this play .
And it goes on they get older they get cheeky answer back they come in late .
But you forgive them after major panic that there out there hurt .somewhere .
Then they leave school you give them money to go out you worry that there getting into trouble .
They come back with boyfriends or girlfriends then you give them the third degree about protection so fourth sooner or later they get a job and move out your love feels abandoned but you get on with things as you know you raised a good kid the phone bill goes up as you ring them all the time just to hear there voices to know there OK . then sooner or later marriage and then they have a child then your unconditional love circle starts again .
I couldn't imagine my life without my kids the cuddles to get told they love you and the smile is worth all the money in the world .
money cant by you love is very true saying .
Unconditional love has no boundary's no rules you just go with the flow love all about your kids good or bad .
I thought i would share with you on my feelings
What are your thoughts on unconditional love we would love to hear your thoughts on it
But when you have a child the love changes .
How do i start hmmmm OK ile start like this .
OK the Minuit they come out in this world you melt on the spot .
You know that the pair of you made this all worries go out the window like will i be a good dad / will i do enough to show my love / how am i going to afford this extra mouth to feed or clothe the baby for the rest of there life .
All the worries you have are just a state of panic .
OK now your holding your baby in your arms its so helpless only you and your wife or partner will be the ones to feed and change the baby to to keep it clean and help it grow your life turns around automatically the minute there there .
you know that you would protect the baby even if it means you die in the process .
now from a blokes point of view even when the wife rants and raves is nothing when you have a child they scream they shout they crap all the time and there always hungry sometimes when there teething or ill or got colic they just scream blue murder and they stress you right out but as soon as you get that smile alls forgiven you get up all silly hours at stupid O'clock to deal with them you wouldn't even get up with u wife or partner that way .
having a child makes you but it also breaks you .
and at the end of the day as long as you get your smile or a cuddle with them it seems to make it all better.
now with me with my kids no matter how old they are i go to the extreme of when my kids have eaten and I'm having dinner if one or more are still hungry ile always give my dinner to them as i don't come into the equation if a child's still hungry they get .when they get older and they go to school you have to try to let go a little as you have never had to share your child before but the minute there supposed to leave your there at the door no thanks ever comes from the children but you do it as there your child and you love them but the minute there at school and you find that they get hurt your heart goes a panic wondering if there OK .
So you drop whatever your doing to get to them at any cost .
School plays when they come you go just to see your child OK to See the play but your looking for your child only lol .
You sit there so proud that there doing this play .
And it goes on they get older they get cheeky answer back they come in late .
But you forgive them after major panic that there out there hurt .somewhere .
Then they leave school you give them money to go out you worry that there getting into trouble .
They come back with boyfriends or girlfriends then you give them the third degree about protection so fourth sooner or later they get a job and move out your love feels abandoned but you get on with things as you know you raised a good kid the phone bill goes up as you ring them all the time just to hear there voices to know there OK . then sooner or later marriage and then they have a child then your unconditional love circle starts again .
I couldn't imagine my life without my kids the cuddles to get told they love you and the smile is worth all the money in the world .
money cant by you love is very true saying .
Unconditional love has no boundary's no rules you just go with the flow love all about your kids good or bad .
I thought i would share with you on my feelings
What are your thoughts on unconditional love we would love to hear your thoughts on it
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